Let me take you behind the scenes of my blendedness. Is it perfect? Of course not, we have our struggles and our moments where we just want things to be different. But let’s be real… is life perfect? Are any of us perfect? Absolutely not. We have learned to communicate on a regular basis rather than only when necessary. After learning this, we learned something very important…we get along and enjoy being around each other. All of the issues we had or thought we had with our differing parenting styles slowly disappeared. We agreed on so much and continue to. How do the kids handle this? Well, they have their moments where they would prefer we didnt talk about everything because they can’t get things passed us as easily. It is a great relationship and I am constantly blessed to have the family that I do.